I think this new cultural dissolution of sex being the property of marriage and marriage being the safe haven of children is pretty discouraging. It’s interesting to me that so many people are angry in the face of such a timid suggestion–if you want to have sex, get married, if you want to have children, get married. If you don’t want to have children, don’t get married. And, by implication, don’t have sex because you’re not married. This strange blasphemy of mine, once the bedrock of human civilization, is intolerable to the modern person.