Female Friendships and the Art of Swimsuit Shopping

Well, today I had breakfast with a friend from long ago.  It was delightful to catch up.  I don't think we'd been together since 1993.  Yikes!  Really?  Allow me to recommend having breakfast with an old friend.  It was a pleasure.  

After breakfast I had a list of errands to face.  But guess what the first errand of the day was.  According to my own instructions, it was "Buy a new bathing suit."  Noooooooooo! 

Buying a new bathing suit is not a task that faint hearted women should face.  Men are TOTALLY different.  I know this because I have 4 of them in my life and they couldn't care less what they swim in.  They swim in the shorts they have on, their boxers, torn and faded board shorts from a hundred years ago, or, most favorite of all, nothing.  Left to their own devices, they would definitely swim in nothing.  Dorks.  

Disposable Self-Worth

The other day a friend gave me one of those cool insulated water bottles. On the bottle was a sticker that gave the number of disposable plastic bottles that would be saved by using this reusable water bottle. (I never realized that plastic bottles were in need of being saved but perhaps that is another post.)

The sticker got me thinking – we really are a disposable society. We like to use something a few times and then throw it away. It’s much easier and faster. There is no need to clean it, store it or to take care of it. When we’re done with it or tired of it, we can toss it and replace it.

In many ways it feels as if this disposable mentality has infiltrated other areas of our lives. It has moved beyond the items we use in our external lives and has attacked us in the way we many of us see our self-worth.

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