I will always remember the sharp rebuke from my grandmother to be quiet when I asked her and my other relatives to speak English at the dinner table so I could take part in their conversation. It was a pivotal year when my next brother and I began to wear the trappings of our acquired American culture. It was the year we showed up in South Africa with banned Midnight Oil cassette tapes, long hair, and new attitudes. As a monolingual child of pop culture I stood out in sharp contrast to the Afrikaans identity of my Mother’s family. Every summer we would relief drop into a white washed world of mountain views, vineyards, and institutionalized segregation. I grew up a South African whose cultural identity was only an illegitimate government’s passport deep. Passports are pretty thin documents that can open doors or get you kicked off trains (I can tell that story another day) but don’t tell you much about a person’s soul.
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