SOP - in business it stands for Standard Operating Procedures - a routine way of completing a frequently occurring tasks. All businesses have them, even those who are too postmodern to identify them as such. (Can you imagine the guys at Google having notebooks full of documented processes? Neither can I - but I'm be wiling to bet there's a "right" and "wrong" way for completing most of their common organizational functions.) Regardless of identification, SOP's help organizations ensure consistency of results. They help eliminate the fluctuating nature of human performance by providing step-by-step instructions with little to no variance. They are what allow businesses to identify how they do business. Although we all might not carry around a standard operating procedures notebook, most of us also have a set of practices that help us organize our life. They are our personal SOP's - the routines that we establish to ensure that we get the consistency of results that we desire. They are rarely perfect, and just like in business, they can not account for unforeseen environmental changes, but we rely on them to get everything that we need to done, and still have time for watching The Office.
However, society's SOP's have changed over time. I am reminded of this when I listen to Sugarland's latest song (for the non-country fans - Sugarland is a duo who's probably most famous for their leading singer recording a duet with Bon Jovi.) In a story of growing up and letting go, Sugarland traces the trajectory of a young girl's life. The final verse is about the end of her marriage - and concludes with her driving away from her now-estranged husband with nary a look in reverse.
The noteworthy part of this song is that the woman's disintegrating marriage is just another right of passage in the course of her life. Along with driving her first car and having her first crush, its just another step on the road. Perhaps its not quite to the point that leaving one's marital commitment is a standard operating procedure, but from the sound of the song, it's getting close.
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