I think it’s fair to say that many of us who write our own blogs also
read a lot of blogs. We might also spend a fair amount of time on
twitter. We might also waste a bit of time on facebook. And before we
know it, we might find ourselves wondering how it got to be 1am and we
still haven’t put the dinner dishes away.
And by we, I mean me.
I spend entirely too much time online. It's what a call a neutral
addiction. It's not hurting anyone - I'm not flying into a drunk rage or
throwing my life away or getting arrested. I'm just quietly wasting
lots and lots of time.
I have a love-hate relationship with social media. It has certainly
expanded my worldview and made me feel a part of a broader community of
moms. I have never had that sense of isolation as a mom that I heard my
mother’s generation talk about. Despite the fact that some days I don’t
ever make it out of my pj’s, I still feel like I get to do a little
socializing every night on facebook. When my kids go down for a nap, I
can catch up on my reader to see what my friends are doing, or relate to
an anecdote from someone else in a similar lifestage. I can blog about
my struggles with choosing a minivan, or dealing with the school bully,
or my inability to remember my assigned snack day in the classroom, and
the comments often feel like my very own community of women, propping
me up and guiding me along the journey. It's also provided me with an
amazing community of adoptive moms, with families that look like mine. I
may not see them every day, but I know they are out there, and I get to
keep up with them on facebook and twitter.
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