It seems every week we get a new report illustrating what we already know: young people aren’t getting married. Millennials are delaying marriage longer than any generation before us, and according to some studies, more than 25 percent of us will never take the plunge at all. We are, without a doubt, the most marriage-averse group in human history. But this is my advice: get married young. Have kids. Don’t be scared of growing up.