You may hate Valentine’s Day. You may resent the fact that “they” try to tell you when you should romance your wife. You may tell yourself that you are romantic all year long, and you don’t need Hallmark telling you when to do so. Your wife may even join in on the scoffing and nay-saying about Cupid’s big day. But, can I tell you a secret? She is just dying for you to make a big deal about her on Valentine’s Day.