Last week in Phoenix, an eight year old girl was brutally gang raped. The perpetrators had no elaborate scheme or meticulous cover up. No real plan. They simply decided one day to lure their little neighbor into a shed by offering her gum, hold her down and rape her for 10-15 minutes. They were immediately arrested at the scene of the crime, after another neighbor heard hysterical screaming and called the police. The “gang” consisted of young boys, ages 9. 10, 13, and 14. The victim and the perpetrators were all Liberian refugees. You can read the full story here. After learning that their innocent daughter had been sexually assaulted, her family did the unthinkable. They disowned her. Instead of outrage at the perpetrators or a fierce desire to see justice done, the family embraced a cultural relic still present in many African and Middle Eastern countries that pronounces female rape victims Guilty, responsible for the violence they were powerless to fend off or flee from. The father told a case worker and a policemen in her presence to “take her,” that he “didn’t want her back.” His daughter, bloodied, bruised, and severely traumatized had become, however implausible to most Americans, a symbol of cultural shame. Thankfully, the Phoenix Police Department is committed to seeking justice for this little girl, even while her family chooses to blame her. The President of Liberia, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, involved herself personally upon hearing of the crime. She chided the girl’s family, beseeched them to seek counseling, and assured the world that Liberia is moving in a cultural direction that values women and decries sexual assault. She then asserted that the perpetrators, the young boys, have to pay the penalty, but we also want to make sure that they are counseled ... that they will have an opportunity to change and become useful citizens, not only in the United States but when they return home." The 14 year old boy is being charged as an adult. The 9, 10 and 13 year olds are being charged as juveniles. Being charged as an adult means that the sentence will be harsher, longer, and the record permanent. Delivering justice seems fairly straightforward at first glance. The perpetrators should pay. They should absolutely pay for their crimes. They should be harshly sentenced and given the maximum penalty. The victim was only 8 years old, after all. Then, one remembers something crucial and even more horrific; They are only little boys. Boys only a few years older than my own son. Boys, refugees, that were likely exposed to rape and sexual violence before arriving in the United States. It is highly likely that their childhoods were not filled with Sponge Bob, Toys R Us, good parenting, and sound moral teaching. As refugees, it is likely that these boys all but raised themselves. It is entirely possible that the boys were recruited as Liberian rebel soldiers. These little boys, the perpetrators, are victims in their own rite. It is easy to imagine that the boys are suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Most refugees could be easily diagnosed with PTSD. So, what’s a justice system to do? Should the goal be punishment, or rehabilitation? Sentencing or counseling? A combination of both? Obviously, the little girl needs counseling and a family that will love her and introduce her to the Creator who restores all things broken. She has been wounded physically and emotionally in the most horrific way possible. I basically think she should come live with me. In all honesty, I’ve been having dreams about telling this little girl how valuable she is, how perfect, how pure. I OBVIOUSLY believe in adoption. More to follow on that…. Don’t these boys need the same thing? Wouldn’t the best thing be for their innocence to be restored? Shouldn't some one inform them of how valuable they are to the Creator? The more important and pressing question is this: What is the Church to do? With the 8 year old rape victim, the little boy perpetrators, and Injustice everywhere? I know this. Churches are EVERYWHERE. How does the Church mobilize to prevent this tragic story from enfolding in the FIRST PLACE? I’m not offering any answers. Not just yet.
I’m extremely curious about what YOU have to say……. |

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Jodie-
Man. This is a tough one. You ask some great questions. Yes, both the little girl and the boys need to know about their Creator who loves them. The girls parents also need to know the same is true for them.
When I shared this story with my husband, who is African, he assumed I was talking about it happening in Africa. Unfortunately this very act is being carried out in various parts of Africa on a daily basis, the DR Congo having the highest numbers of both child solders (6 million) and rape among women and girls (some as young as 3). The Hope is that there is a lot being done to combat these acts of violence. The simple fact that the little girl and the boys are in Phoenix is proof of that.
And that leads me to the 'what now' question. I think the church can love every party involved here. The girl, her parents, the boys and their parents. I think the church can look beyond the act and focus more on the root that caused the act. I think the church can be strategic where they serve. The church can be involved in the refugee process in Phoenix and other areas of the US where pockets of people who may be facing similar troubles can have access to.
I don't have answers either. Just some thoughts that come to mind when reading your questions.
Carrie,
Thanks for the comment. I wholeheartedly agree with your last paragraph, that the church can be involved at all levels. There are more churches in the world than hospitals or community centers, so we're missing the mark in terms of outreach potential, don't you think?
I think the only solution I can get my mind around, at least today, is the concept of ONE. One life at a time. I get overwhelmed with vastness of these issues and end up feeling paralyzed. So, my mantra lately has been "one." My husband is in South Africa right now trying to hammer out a strategy for our church to partner with churches there so we can make a dent in some of these issues. I'm excited about this but also saddened that help is needed so badly in the first place....
Guess we should pray a lot, too... :)
Whoa Jodie,
Left turn. I wasn't expecting you to throw a wrench in my preconceived notions about how justice should be served. In fact, I was down right ready to be angry and shout "good!" when you said what the sentences for the boys were. Way to see this issue at a deeper angle. I would have never come to that conclusion on my own, and you really pointed out some meaningful insight.