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Sacrifice

This morning, I followed my normal pre-work routine.  My alarm rang at 6:45.  I climbed out of bed to turn it off.  I climbed back into bed until the snooze alarm sounded.  I turned that off too, and climbed into bed again.  Finally, after thirty minutes of this game, I was ready to truly get up and face the world.  (Why I can’t just set my alarm thirty minutes later and sleep I’ll never know.)

Next, I journeyed to the bathroom for the morning ritual:  shower, shave, brush my hair (even though I buzz my hair), brush my teeth.  I got dressed, headed to the kitchen and poured myself a bowl of cereal.  I then embarked on a ritual I’ve had in some form or fashion since I was eight - I saw down and read the paper.  

When I was eight, I would literally spend 20 minutes combing through the local paper - skimming articles, checking out the day’s news, reading the funnies.  Nowadays, I migrate back to my computer and skim through the news stories on the website of the local paper.  If I have time, I’ll pop over to a few favorite sites or blogs that are on my newsfeed.  

This morning, however, I was stopped in my tracks when I came across this photo.  

  

Suddenly, the mundane nature of my morning ritual evaporated.    Tears instantly welled up in my eyes as I studied the scene - a heroic father, dead.  His baby girl, reaching out to him one last time - probably wondering when daddy would wake up.  And mom, holding her steady remaining strong in her grief.

It’s difficult for me to wrap my head around the wars occurring thousands of miles away.  It’s difficult to connect the blessing of my mundane morning with the men and women fighting oversees.  And it’s difficult to remain okay with mundane when people are dying for my freedom.  

Thank you, SSG John Melton, for your sacrifice.  You are truly a hero.  And may God watch over your family as they journey on without you.   

For more amazing photos depicting the conflict in Afghanistan, click here.

Comments

Oh my gosh Jim... I'm at a loss for words, and I can't stop crying... It is a tough position these men and women are put into EVERYDAY. With Jose being out there and me hearing all these stories it just totally makes you realize how good we have it here. Back in October Jose and his team were involved in one of many attacks. This particular time one of the trucks on his team hit a roadside bomb and the gunner (Jose's friend) passed away on the instantly, 3 others were immediately transported to The Naval Hospital in Germany. 2 of the 3 are well and fully recovered one is slowly still recovering in San Diego. It was such a horrible heart breaking situation. Cpl. Diamond was a father of 4, his death like many other has really hit home. It's an unfortunate reality... :(

Thanks to God Jose will be coming home later this month after his 1 year tour in Afghanistan, and I cannot count the many sleepless nights I've had staring at my laptop refreshing cnn.com every 2 min. and praying that he would call or email me. Tonight being one of those night...

Thanks for blogging about this. It's nice to know people actually care about what's going on out there :)

Martha

If you want to read more about Cpl Dimond here is a link to an article.
http://www.concordmonitor.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20081021/NOCOMM...

Martha, I had you and Jose in the back of my mind as I wrote that entry - the sacrifice your family has to make (and so many others) by just simply being apart is a difficult one. I see glimpses of how difficult it is for you on your Twitter updates, but also see how graciously you handle your time apart (and look forward to your time together). I'm praying for your family and Jose's safety continuously.....

It's amazing how so many trivial things in life upset us. So many things in life make us feel as if we're not appreciated or that we deserve better. And then photos like this show us that we have so much to be grateful for. There is so much in life that we can thank God for everyday. There are so many wonderful moments and beautiful people in our lives who fill us with inspiration, comfort and love.

I know at night it's routine for us to pray and to thank God for all that He has given us, but maybe, if we don't already do this, we should try to make it a habit to thank God throughout the day or just to give Him a quick "shout out"... just to say hi and to tell Him that we know that He's there.

There is so much for us to be thankful for. And hopefully we can always remember that no matter what we're going through.

Having spent over half of my married life married to a Marine, I know the strength and courage it takes. Although you dad never had to fly in combat the possibility of that happening was, sadly, ever present. The men and women who have volunteered to put their lives on the line for us every day deserve our gratitude. If you see a soldier or Marine (rare in Orange County these days) thank them for their service and sacrifice. The picture above should remind us all just how great that sacrifice is. God bless them all!

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