I’m sure that I won’t get an argument over this assertion from those who identify themselves as existing outside the circle of Christianity. But it may surprise you to know that Christians don’t argue with this premise either. I frequently have the opportunity to speak before Christian groups. The audiences usually range in size from 200 to 2,000 people in attendance. As often as possible, I use these forums to conduct an informal survey. I don’t have any formal polling methodology; I just ask this simple question: “What one word best describes the reputation that Christians have in our society?” Here are the most frequent responses: • judgmental • hypocritical • self-righteous • ignorant • pushy • dangerous • irrelevant • obnoxious When I review the responses to my question with the members of the Christian audience, there is almost universal agreement that they have this reputation in our society. (Duh! Apparently Christians aren’t as clueless as you might expect. Despite their flaws, at least they can manage to get a blinding glimpse of the obvious.) But here is what I continually find to be amazing: These Christian groups always agree that this unflattering reputation of their own constituency is deserved and accurate. They readily admit that their group is not being falsely accused. Apparently a lot of Christians somewhere have been working very hard to earn their unflattering reputation. Maybe the rest of us need to concede that as a group Christians are now the most annoying segment of society. Tell them they’ve won. Maybe then they’ll give it a rest. Unfortunately, their annoyance is so multi-faceted that it won’t be easy for them to cease and desist. Even if we assume that they desire to improve their social standing, the one-word character descriptors only identify the symptoms that are painfully obvious. There remains a much more sinister underlying cause of these symptoms. Treating the symptoms will require dealing with that cause, and the lunatic fringe of Christianity may not be willing to go there. It would require radical surgery. More than amputation (because the ailment is too pervasive). More than a lobotomy (which simply may be a redundancy). We’re talking about a drastic measure: Removing Christians from their self-appointed role as society’s morality police. |

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Hi Bruce, it's a pretty sad commentary on believers. In my experience, the cause of the problem stems from one thing; people forget they were forgiven of their past sins. They forget who they used to be (2 Peter 1:5-9). Or what's worse, is the arrogant attitudes that come from someone who grew up in the church and maybe were never "that" bad.
No wonder pride is the first thing on the list of the seven things God hates. Look what it has done to our witness.
God forgive us!
Thanks for the good word.
Teresa
Teresa -- I think you are correct. Like the Pharisees, once we are in the Shepherd's fold we tend to think of ourselves as "better" than those who are outside of it. It doesn't make it any better for us to say that "christians are perfect, just forgiven" because that suggests that we think our appearance comes across as "perfect" to the rest of the world, so we have to explain that we aren't really perfect. How arrogant is that! More and more I need to see myself as the wretch I was (and still am); God's forgiveness and grace is new everyday, and I can't believe He continually chooses to love me. I certainly have nothing to be proud about in myself. thanks for your comment.
Hi Bruce,
I do hope you know that I was including myself in the "they" :-)
I am with you--why in the world does God choose to love me and listen to me each and everyday? Perhaps it is because He sees me through the eyes of His Son?
Have a blessed day!
Overall, I sadly agree with you.
However, I believe that there are two categories of Christians for whom non-Christians have a high regard: those who sacificially help those in need without expectation of reward or regard to the worthiness of those being helped (such as Mother Teresa's Sisters of Charity or the Mennonite or Southern Baptist Disaster Relief teams), and those who sincerely offer to pray for someone without trying to sign them up for their church or ask for a donation.
If more of us engaged in these two behaviors, I believe the overall reputation of Christianity would improve.
Doc
Doc -- Amen to that. I agree wholehearted with both of those examples. Mother Teresa is certainly an exception to the general perception of Christians, so much so that I'm not sure the general public would even lump her in with the rest of "Christians." And you are certainly right about Southern Baptist Disaster Relief efforts (I'm the outside counsel for the California Southern Baptists and well-aware of the fact that the Red Cross believe that the Southern Baptists do a better job at disaster relief than the Red Cross due to the mobilization of volunteers through the churches). But I don't think that the Baptists get much press, so those volunteers don't factor into the equation when the general public thinks about "Christians." But I think that proves your point. If the rest of us Christians were more service minded -- ala Mother T or Disaster Relief -- I think we'd give a different face to Christianity. Hmmm, maybe if we acted more like Jesus. Thanks for your response.
Hi friends...
Dittos x10.
My minister of education and I had a conversation this morning about how we are living in an age of mercy and grace, and God has chosen US to be the ambassadors of grace. Galatians reminds us that the law didn't save anyone, the merciful sacrifice of Jesus Christ did. When we as the church decide that living as people who have been granted an immense measure of grace is more important than handing out moral report cards, real healing is going to begin in our hearts and our world.