Heard a lecture on sex and sexuality this week and here’s the sound bite that stuck: “The healed state of homosexuality is not heterosexuality, but holiness.”
The sticking measure isn’t about anything gay/straight related though; it’s about healing. If the statement is true, which I believe it is, any stray “from what it was in the beginning,” be it sexual, emotional, psychological, physical, etc., finds healing not based in an opposing polarity, but in a new identity—called “Holy.”
The early chapters of the Judeo-Christian Scriptures explain a God who created Adam and Eve, a heterosexual, two-party couple, meant to further create, enjoy and rule over the earth. The so-called fall of man, however, caused that all things fell, and all pursuits since have been twisted, to some degree, bereft of Love’s original intentions.
That’s the bad news.
The good news is man fell, not God.
Love never changed; man’s reception of it did. Even in our twisted pursuits, Love kept pursuing, as originally intended.
That means
Love chooses me in my twisting. That means
God takes me where I am, twisted though I am, and calls me holy. Not because I’m no longer twisted, or because my twisting came undone, but because
Love is not overwhelmed by my twisting.
Holiness is about identity, not morality. I don’t become holy by attaining a level of holiness; I am holy because I am called holy by Holiness, Himself. Holiness hides in me. My holiness is hidden in Christ. I am fallen and picked-up by holiness.
There will always be twisting among us, and there will never be an absence of the Holy.
I am twisted and I am holy.
That’s twisted.
Comments
This concise piece is pitch perfect, Abbie. As a straight woman, I am convicted by it, realizing how unholy I am apart from Christ. Beautiful synthesis of what you heard in the lecture and how you let it process through you.
Probably one of the best explanations I've heard for who God is outside of homosexuality. Thanks, Abbie. Thanks for walking in boldness.
Thank you so much for this. I have been searching for "Holy" for the longest time. Now I know where to find it. J
Great post! I think this is a mandatory starting place as we think about sexuality in the Christian life, probably as we consider a lot of other things in the Christian life as well. The gay Christian doesn't need to become like me. He needs to become holy. In as much as he is a Christian that holiness is imputed to him because of the sacrificial, propitiating death of Jesus on the cross. If the gay person isn't a Christian, his most pressing need is not to get straight, but to get saved.
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This is an outstanding piece... outstanding.