This is a great question because it focuses on two words that appear in the same verse in the Bible, both relating to our parents: obey and honor. The verse is Ephesians 6:1, and it goes like this:

"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother'--which is the first commandment with a promise--that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy a long life on the earth."