Perspective

Lately, I have had a very complaining attitude about things going on in my life, at my church, etc. But today, I was reminded that I need to gain some perspective. Here is the story:

It actually begins a couple days ago. A man named Joseph called me on the phone saying that he needed some gas money. To give you some background, one of the things I do at my church is work with people who are in need, and help to meet those needs or connect them with those who can. So picking up the phone and beginning the conversation is where the often difficult task of discernment of the true need begins.

Joseph jumps into a story that in short involves long lost friendship, recent re-connection, and the discovery that his long lost friend, Christine, now has Crone’s Disease, which has not only wreaked havoc on her body, but also contributed to her husband leaving, and most of her friends abandoning her as dead.

What is Community? (Pt. 1)

Not long ago I was meeting with a mentor of mine, who has functioned as a spiritual director to me at various times the last few years. In my mind, our meeting was not about spiritual formation but to catch up on some other stuff going on, but all of the sudden he asked me a question, seemingly out of nowhere. He asked, "so what is God doing in your life?" An innocent and fine question to ask, but not one I had come prepared to answer. I immediately told him what I had been studying in my devotions and how it had been going.

He, being the type that he is, saw through my religiosity and complimented me upon my extraordinary accomplishments, but then asked again what God was doing, NOT what I was doing. He then politely excused himself to get some more tea while I was allowed to humbly recover for a bit. When he returned from getting tea, I began to tell him that I was not really feeling that God was doing something, but told him instead about a good friend who was in the process of moving away and how this was affecting me.

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The Wall

So, sometimes there are those times in life when you are under a lot of stress, things are in turmoil, your wife is in hormonal disruption, your kids are crazy, your job is changing, and you decide to go back to school and take on a second job at the same time. All of the sudden recently I have hit a wall.

This wall is one that I have hit many times before. I hit it whenever there are tons of stressful things going on. I think I can go on no longer, fight no more, and I just feel that an entire change of life is necessary. These are the times when I feel that the best thing in life to do would be to simply sell my home studio equipment, sell all my books, quit my job, quit school, and move to a land where the pace of life is slow.

And do you know why? Because everything would be better, the grass is greener there, and I would be happier. All stress would be flushed away down the toilet of life if I could only expel it here and leave it behind.

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Rockstar

Lately I have been thinking about the role that the pastor plays. It seems that often times, we as pastors strive for the glorified, upfront position in which we are essentially the lead singer of a rock band. We seek to make a name for ourselves by fighting the battles and then coasting into our prime ministry years after making a name for ourselves by paying our dues playing in the smaller clubs and venues, before making it to the big stage.

This view of pastoral ministry has left me with quite a disgusted feeling inside. I am essentially performing to a certain level to entertain a certain crowd in order to achieve a certain level of achievement. How is this different from entertainment. A man by the name of Marshall McLuhan about thirty some years ago made a now famous statement saying “the medium is the message.” By making this statement he was essentially saying that what we communicate by what we do is making as much or more of a statement than what we are actually saying in our words. In other words, by performing to a certain level, attaining this rockstar status, we are in essence proclaiming that a pastor is a celebrity of sorts.

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Rewards and Motives

Welcometo my first blog here on conversantlife. How does one even begin a blog of this sort? Posting a first blog often seems to set thetone of the whole course of one's blog. To be quite honest, this makes me a bit nervous, partially because I aman extreme perfectionist, and partially because people may then see me as beinga certain way and then I may have to actually live up to those standards.

At any rate, here we go, but first my slightly apprehensive disclaimer that I hope that my blog will continually be evolving, much like my own self and thought. I hope that my participation in this site will be a learning experience, and I view it as a bit of an experiment. So here we go with some recent thoughts I have been having as I do some reading.

As pastors, and even Christians, we sometimes wonder about the motives of others. Sometimes we begin to wonder whether others simply follow Christ to escape from hell and receive a "reward." Some jokingly call this sort of mentality "fire insurance," meaning that by following, one can escape the horrible fires of hell.

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Phil is a pastor and Ph.D. student (studying the relationship between media/new media and theology). He also creates music in his home studio. This blog is about media, church, theology, music, society, and other ramblings.


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