We live in a world of labels and categories.  Everything has to fit into something.  And perhaps among the widest of these categories is the one labeled, "Emergent." 

I've been told that I'm Emergent.  Sometimes I'm asked, but recently a few people have just labeled me that.  When this issue is brought to my attention I always respond with a question, "What is your definition of Emergent?"  I had one person tell me that I'm Emergent because I used the word "journey" in a message.  Another was concerned because I did an overview of a book of the Bible (Ecclesiastes) in a talk versus going verse by verse and phrase by phrase.   I've had another person assume I'm Emergent because my churches website didn't have the exact words, "Triune God" anywhere on it (as if I don't believe in a "Triune" God simply because it's not explicitly articulate on a website).

It's amazing to me how stressful it is buying presents for people, especially at Christmas.  Some people might say it's not stressful (some might actually say they enjoy it), but it's still a pressure.  For some reason we feel like it's a "need" to buy someone a gift at Christmas, their birthday, wedding anniversary, Valentines day...

It's actually to the point where our feelings get hurt if someone doesn't buy us something for these occasions.  Is that not weird?  Is it not weird for our culture to be at a point where we feel loved and cared for as long as someone buys us something?  It's almost as if our joy of receiving the gift is based on the fact that we feel loved and cared for.  I'm not a psychologist, but again, think about that...is that not at least a little weird? 

There is much discussion today about masculine references to God.  Questions arise as to why it is we always refer to God in a masculine way, when the fact is He is Spirit - neither sex.  Some woman perhaps have felt like they are undervalued when God is constantly referred to as a "He."  Some (men or women) suggest it's simply a cultural idea.  It's said that in the times Scriptures were written men dominated society and therefore it would've been absurd to refer to God as a female.  And some suggest today is different.  And thus now only refer to God as a "She" - some in spite, but some simply feel more comfortable.  Possibly more accepted.

I recently had a very good and interesting conversation with someone that has a hard time with only masculine references.  This person was to the point of frustration and, frankly, bitterness.  This person preferred feminine references and only feminine references.  Admittedly it was partially out of spite and to prove a point, but that's just where this person was.  Which I appreciated the perspective and conversation.  

I recently read the book, Finding Organic Church by Frank Viola.  The subtitle is: a comprehensive guide to starting and sustaining authentic Christian communities.  I read the book because there's been a fair amount of buzz about it from college-age people nationwide.  I have heard of a sort of "rebellion" happening from people in this stage of life after reading this book.

If you're leading a college ministry, I'd recommend reading it.  My guess is this book will gain much more traction, especially with college-age people.  I'll explain more in a minute.

Things I liked: The book had a lot of really good insights into what biblical community can actually look like.  And, it was practical for leaders seeking to implement community in their church/ministry.  I can say that there were a lot of things I've been doing in my ministry for years and agree with.  I think any leader can gain some insights for their immediate ministry - regardless of context - from reading this book.  I can also say that I think Frank Viola (from what I can tell) loves Jesus, the Church, and is seeking to be faithful. I mean that.

I'm sure being "connected" with other believers is a huge thing for you, that is, if you're human (and a Christian).  You want to be relationally connected.  Intimately connected.  Person to person, person to people.  

We're created for relationships.  So, it makes sense.  But, what does it mean to be connected and how do we go about getting connected?  

Over the last 40 or so years we've developed a structure in our churches we like to call "small groups."  It's in these smaller groups of people we get "connected."  Well, that's the plan anyway.  There are certainly times in which this works out.  We "join" one and really resinate with others in the group.  It's more than a study, its where we connect in life with people.  Person to person, intimately.

There is a lot of conversation from church leaders about the consumerism of people in churches.  A consumer, well, consumes.  He doesn’t give.  He accumulates.  He takes.  He gets what he desires and then leaves.  This frustrates many of us and, I think, it should.  Some questions I’ve been asking lately are:

1. What am I personally doing to battle this in my life?  The truth is my culture is about consumerism, so this is tough.
2. Are there ways in which we approach ministry that may actually be enabling a consumer mentality?  At worst, creating it?
3. Are there battles we’re not facing that we ought to be?  What fears are we giving into by not fighting those?
4. What does our infrastructure of ministry say about the Christian life, without using words?  In other words, what would an outsider say about the Christian life if they only had our ministry as an example?  Would it be self sacrifice, or feed a consumer mentality?  How about your personal life?  What does that say to outsiders about what it means to be a follower of Christ?

There is a movie out that I think hits some of the core issues college grads are faced with today: Searching for work, searching for love, and searching for self. Those are the words the trailer of "Post Grad" uses to describe the journey.  I'd say that's pretty much dead on. And then add to that the feelings of the potential of having to move back in with family.  I plan on watching this movie.  I doubt it's a great movie (at least not my kind of movie), but I do think it hits some of the core issues faced today.  Mainly, crushed dreams.  I recently wrote an article about this called, "Bachelor Degree: Passport to Privilege?"  You can find that here. 

Here's an E! New Exclusive about it (notice what Alexis Bledel says in her commentary). Below that exclusive is the official trailer. Unfortunately I think "Hollywood" is seeing the pressures of college-age life and addressing it before the Church does. And even though it's in theatrical form, they have made a movie that's going to relate to and address every day life better than the Church does. It bums me out.

A few weeks ago I came across a website that allows college students to cheat on due dates, but without a “lame excuse.”  The website is Corrupted-Files.com.  This is a very witty way of using the complexities of technology to cheat.  Very interesting to say the least.  Here’s how it works…

• The student does not have a paper done by the assigned due date.
• The student can then go to Corrupted-Files.com and download  a corrupted file (Powerpoint, Excel, or Word) – the file doesn’t corrupt anything on your computer, it’s simply not able to be opened by the person receiving the file (which in this case is a professor).
• The student purchases the file, names it the title appropriate for the project that’s due, and emails the purchased file to the professor
• It will likely take the professor a day or two to get back to the student describing his/her inability to open the file.
• It may also take the student a day to get that professors email (which is likely intentional on the students part) – thus giving the student a minimum of 2-3 more days after the original due date to get the actual document completed.
• The professor just assumes that something happened to that particular file, not assuming anything is fishy with the interaction with the student.
• Meanwhile, the student is taking the extra time to get the assignment done.
• Once it’s complete the student emails the actual file to the professor without him/her knowing anything that’s gone on.
• The student is not likely to be marked down for being late because it was an “unkown error” that occured.

I'm sitting at Peet's Coffee and Tea as I write.  Every morning I get in my car and say, "Ok Lord, where we going?"  I know it's a coffee shop somewhere, just don't always have it planned out.  Today, it's Peet's at Bridgeport Village.

Regardless of where I go I have to drive down my street.  And every morning (well, at least 4 out of 5 weekdays) I see the same guy walking.  He's an older man, I'd guess 70 or so.  For over 5 months now I've been seeing this guy walking and every time I see him I wave.

For 5 months straight I've driven past this man, waved, and been hung out to dry - every time.  I get nothing.  No response.  A blank stare.  That is, until today.  As I was driving here this morning I saw him and gave my usual wave.  But this time was different, much different.  First off, he responded, which you'd think would be a good thing.  Especially after 5 months of being denied!  But his response was very different than I hoped.  Yeah, well, he flipped me off!