My wife and I homeschooled our kids prior to sending them to High School (OK, to be fair, Susie did most of the teaching and training). We absolutely loved the experience and have recommended it to others. Even back then (it’s been a few years since our kids were home with us) we recognized the explosive growth of homeschooling here in California. We met lots of parents along the way, and most of them were Christians.
Believers often lean toward homeschooling because they are concerned about the direction of the culture and want to protect their kids from the dangers they see growing around them. For many Christian homeschooling parents, the primary motivation is simply a concern for safety. But while Susie and I were also aware of the growing hostility to our values as Christians, neither of us wanted to homeschool for this reason. Maybe it’s because both of us were non-Christians as kids and were educated entirely in the public school system (even through our college years). Maybe it was simply because we were realists about the exposure our kids would eventually have:
We didn’t homeschool because we were concerned about our kids’ safety. We weren’t trying to protect them from an ever more secular world. We simply thought we could better prepare them for this challenge. Our daughters are enrolled in high school now and our sons are engaged in the culture directly. One is a police officer (he got his BA in Psychology from UCLA), one is at USC Medical School (His degree from UCSB was in Micro-Biology). I hope we’ve equipped our young men to enter an unsafe environment as able Christian ambassadors; I pray our girls are ready as well.
If your kids are like mine, they are far less concerned with safety than you are. They are kids, after all. They’re eager and willing. They’re still excited about the possibilities. They’re fearless. I’ve done my best to capitalize on the youthful energy and passion of my kids. I’ve tried to leverage this energy as I’ve coached them along the way. Our goal has been to prepare our kids for the “game” with the singular goal of releasing them onto the “game field”. We sure don’t want our kids to spend a lifetime sitting on the sidelines. I think their ready now to enter unsafe, uncharted territory. If you’re homeschooling in an effort to protect your kids (or more likely, have tried to place them in church ministries that isolate them from the culture), I want you to reconsider. Start looking for opportunities to train your kids for the danger, rather than coddle them toward a false sense of security. Model courage, find a youth group that gets it, and supplement your training (at places like Summit Worldview Academy). Your kids can handle the challenge. They’re ready and they are far less concerned about safety than you are.
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